Let me Know what you think..Serious Inquirers!?

Ok so I met this guy 3 months ago. At some point within the 3 months we started hanging out more and more and txting and talking as if we were building a friendship that could lead to much more. While building a friendship we would often discuss our past history, things we looked for in the next relationship and how one should build a friendship first and then a relationship. So as we kept hanging out (I can only speak fo myself) but I started to grow feelings for him based off all the things he was doing to keep my attention as if he was interested as well. So one night I actually decided to lay it out there to him and give him the opportunity to say yes or no but I enjoy just being friends. His reply was I like you too and your hair is nice too. Now even though this is a broad statement, I Personally(my fault) went with the flow because he was the mellow type and I just obviously umes he was feeling the same but of course based off being friends first we just didn't want to rush anything. So out of the gvine one day after talking to him and him talking to me all week or txting him all week as we have been doin for 3 months I had to find out on fb(Facebook) that all of a sudden hes in a relationship with this girl who prior to me expressing my feelings met him last year and moved to another state and while he was willing to make it work with her she chose someone else. Now all of a sudden cause she got dumped or whatever she comes running back to him and like a punk or matters of the heart or whatever he decides to make her his girlfriend. Which I find it hard to believe because he has admitted to me that long distance relationships very seldom work out under the condition if you and that person is strong willed. Now keep in mind she doesn't live in the same state as him and I so im uming hes one would can establish long distance relationships from scratch or whatever and clearly she doesn't seem strong willed to be running back after a year has elapsed once she realized she chose another guy over him and because it didn't work Im gonna see if he still likes me. So after I told him how I found out he tells me it wasn't expected? Like WTF? are you serious? How do you not expect to be in a relationship with someone? Its either let us rationalize this out and yes we bf and gf or no you had your chance or just I don't want to be with you. Simple. So after I gave him the best of luck speech Im uming he felt guilty that he misled me in some ways so the next day or so he tries to feel my attitude out and so I basically told him how I felt that Im not sure if we could just be friends. For me yet different for some it can be hard to just switch those feelings off so my best move is to move on. Secondly, I wouldn't want to impose on his new gf because I know I had or continue to have feelings for him. So then he goes on to tell me how he values our friendship which I think he was just saying to ease his conscience or based off what I said it would ease his conscience. Then he goes on to say something about I didn't think it need to be announced and I didn't think it would be an issue.I politely told him well if you valued it then you would've told me how you felt after the fact of me telling you how I felt. I probably would've respected that more as a friend and continued to be your friend. But for the simple fact I found out 24 hours ago is like a HELL NO to me.. Like he knew I liked him and the opportunity existed where he shouldve said how he felt and things could have resumed based off th outcome. Secondly, even if I was just a friend only whether he felt the need to tell me or not and to find out on fb is a lil hurhurtfulhirdly if he felt that it didn't need to be announced why put it on facebook knowing I am going to see it..those things dont equate to valuing friendship to me..So then after everything im sayin he goes on to say well we never really talked about being something past friends. Apparently I had to remind him of that since he caught a sudden case of amnesia(think i spelled that wrong but its ok) which was waste of time but at least he got the point of dont insult my intelligence. After that he keeps trying to make me believe or beat through my head that our friendship he values..Nothing like oh im sorry that i may have misled you or any of the above. So to end all and put it in a nice way I simply stated friendship is important and im not saying i can be your friend just at the drop of a second and yet im not ruling it either. Then I told him that Im a pray about it and if we meant to be friends it will be and if not glad we or better yet I got it all out for you to hear. I feel he was not upfront and honest with me when time was for him to be and he tryin to make it seem like something else cause he got a guilty conscience in my opinion and he wanna ease his mind or make mends although I hold no grudge..So just askin or lookin for